You're not stuck.
Something you've outgrown is still shaping your decisions
You’re thinking hard about work, identity or your purpose because what once made sense no longer does.
This starts with understanding, not commitment.
You are in transition
On the outside, you look like you are doing well (for most of my clients, they are)
But in your morning journaling sessions, you find yourself looping around SMALL decisions, questioning ‘is this it’, and giving yourself undue pressure to figure it out.
For my clients, what it looks like on paper is:
- You’re capable and experienced, yet explaining what you do feels harder than it should
- Your role still works on paper, but no longer fits internally
- You’re overthinking decisions you would once have made easily
- You feel pressure to "have it figured out" while quietly questioning direction
and while you are loading up another online cart of the top ten best sellers in self-help, listening to another TED talk, another podcast, or searching for how to find clarity
These are all methods to look for an answer, but like most people, you don’t need answers
You need space to see what is already there, to start the process of awareness
This awareness is where I meet my clients.
Allowing them to find their own perspective.
I've been where you are
Sitting and watching the sunset, I found myself in conversation with someone I’d just met. He asked a series of well-placed questions – not clever or leading, just questions that slowed my thinking down.
At the time, I was wrestling with a growing sense that the way I’d been approaching my future no longer made sense, even though nothing was obviously wrong.
I later learned that he was a professional coach. What stayed with me wasn’t who he was, but what the questions did: they helped me notice a shift in how I was relating to the change I was already in.
There was no dramatic breakthrough or self-help moment. Just a sense of mental ease, and a clearer understanding of the pattern I’d been repeating.
That was the point where I stopped waiting for clarity to arrive, and started acting from a truer sense of who I already was becoming.
It wasn’t dramatic. There was no HUGE ‘a-ha’ moment that has been glamourised by self help.
It was clear, clarifying and helped me see a pattern I hadn’t been able to name before.
What became clear to me was this:
- Identity supports the right action.
- Purpose isn’t fixed — it evolves over time.
- Direction matters more than speed.
HELLO
I’m Harman Gill
I'm an Identity, Purpose and Mindset Coach.
I help people gain clarity, direction, and confidence during periods of personal and professional transition.
I work with people who are capable, experienced, and thoughtful, but find themselves questioning direction, identity, or next steps. My work sits at the intersection of structured change, psychology, and self-awareness.
What makes this work different is that it doesn’t start with action, optimization, or fixes. It starts with understanding. Rather than pushing people towards decisions, I help them see themselves and their situation clearly, so the right direction emerges naturally.
The goal is for you to create integration in who you are and where you want to go.
AIMM™ COACHING
Awareness · Intention · Momentum · Mastery
Trusted by Senior professionals, leaders and individuals navigating complex transitions.
"I was overwhelmed balancing a demanding job and growing my business. Harman helped me gain clarity, structure my time, and adopt a more strategic approach to leadership and growth. Since coaching, I’ve reduced my full-time hours, increased sales at Proguard, improved my health, and become more present with my family. His coaching is insightful, compassionate and action-oriented — it’s changed the way I lead and live."
"I hired Harman during a major career transition into a far more complex global leadership role. He helped me build confidence in working with C-suite leaders and overcome imposter feelings. I now communicate at senior levels with ease and have received strong feedback from leaders across the organisation. His calm, measured approach made it easy to be honest about my challenges. Highly recommended for anyone stepping into senior leadership."
"I wanted to grow as a leader and communicator. From the first session, Harman created a calm, reflective space that helped me think clearly and intentionally. We worked on leadership clarity, communication, transitions and balancing ambition with wellbeing. The changes have been transformative — I’m clearer, more confident and more focused on what truly matters. His blend of empathy, strategy and curiosity makes coaching with him genuinely powerful"
"I was stuck in a secure NHS role but craving something more creative and aligned. Harman helped me understand my motivations, build confidence and structure, and translate my clinical skills into a commercial offering in the film and TV industry. Today, I run a thriving medical business in that space — something that once felt impossible. His coaching gave me clarity, direction and the self-belief to build a new chapter with purpose."
"I was sceptical about coaching, but Harman’s calm and measured approach changed my perspective immediately. His reflections were insightful and often surprising — and they helped me rethink decades of habits as a business owner. The mindset shifts we made have massively improved the way I approach challenges and lead my business. I’ve already recommended him to several associates."
"Harman helped me navigate a complex leadership role and completely shift the mindset across my team. Through coaching I improved collaboration, strengthened my leadership toolkit, created boundaries, elevated my personal brand and crafted a strategic People & Project plan that aligned my team with wider business goals. The impact has been huge — my team is more engaged, I’m calmer and clearer, I’ve reclaimed time for myself, and I’m on track for a promotion within months. Harman’s coaching is intuitive, strategic and deeply human. I recommend him to anyone looking for real personal and professional transformation"
Context
Over
Story.
What I’ve described above isn’t a story for its own sake. It’s the context behind how this work exists today.
"What makes this work different is that it doesn’t start with action, optimization, or fixes. It starts with understanding." |
Because clarity doesn’t come from insight alone — it comes from having the space, structure and support to work through what’s actually happening, in real time.
That’s what the work below is designed to offer.
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AIMM™ Methodology
A structured yet human framework designed to turn self-awareness into confident action, direction, and momentum.
AIMM™ is built for people who have consumed a lot of insight but still feel unclear. It creates structure without rigidity, calm without passivity, and direction without forcing.
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A 20–30 minute conversation to explore where you are, what you're experiencing, and what clarity looks like for your next chapter.
No pressure. Just awareness.
Book Me to Speak
You’re supporting teams, leaders or organisations navigating complexity, transition or increased responsibility.
My talks create space for clearer thinking, stronger self-leadership and more grounded decision-making – without pressure or performance.
Find Clarity No Matter The Stage You Are In
This free workbook helps you slow down, reflect and reconnect with who you are beneath the noise.
If you’re feeling stuck, unclear or directionless – start here.
