It started with one conversation on the beach, I did not realise I was being coached.

A meaningful conversation that changed everything.

Sitting and watching the sunset, I found myself in conversation with someone I’d just met. He asked a series of well-placed questions — not clever or leading, just questions that slowed my thinking down.

At the time, I was wrestling with a growing sense that the way I’d been approaching my future no longer made sense, even though nothing was obviously wrong.

I later learned that he was a professional coach. What stayed with me wasn’t who he was, but what the questions did: they helped me notice a shift in how I was relating to the change I was already in.

There was no dramatic breakthrough or big moment of realisation. Just a sense of mental ease, and a clearer understanding of the pattern I’d been repeating.

That was the point where I stopped waiting for clarity to arrive, and started acting from a truer sense of who I already was becoming.

It wasn't dramatic. But it was clarifying.

It helped me see a pattern I hadn’t been able to name before.

What became clear to me was this:

Identity supports the right actions.

Purpose isn't fixed - it evolves over time.

Direction matters more than speed.

Much of the advice i'd consumed had focused on improving performance. But if you're moving in the wrong direction

Productivity doesn't help very much.

Clarity comes from understanding who you are, who you want to be - and allowing your decisions, work and life to follow from that understanding.

Welcome

Hello, I’m Harman Gill

I’m glad you’re here.

I'm an Identity, Purpose and Mindset Coach.

I help people gain clarity, direction and confidence during periods of personal and professional transition.

I work with people who are capable, experienced and thoughtful, but find themselves questioning direction, identity or next steps.

What makes this work different

it doesn’t start with action, optimisation or fixes. It starts with understanding. Rather than pushing people towards decisions, I help them see themselves and their situation clearly so that the right direction emerges naturally.

The focus of your internal change

What you can expect from our engagement.

Clear thinking during moments of uncertainty

Help navigate identity, leadership and transition with integrity

Grounded, reflective sessions towards your goals

You don’t need to be fixed, it’s time to update where you want to be in life.

The values I hold during our time working together

Identity before action

Clarity about who you are comes before deciding what to do.

Alignment over achievement

Success without alignment feels empty.

Direction before speed

Moving fast in the wrong direction does not help.

Calm as a strategic advantage

Clarity often emerges in calm, not chaos.

No fixing, No forcing

People are not broken.

Structure without rigidity

Frameworks should support, not constrain.

Depth over hype

Substance matters more than spectacle.

Autonomy is essential

Clients own their outcomes.

I work BEST with clients who...

This isn't the place if you're looking for...

Hustle culture or "10x" thinking
Another productivity framework
Motivation, hype, or quick fixes
Someone to tell them who to be
Anything implying they are broken
Guarantees that this is the only way

Trusted by

Senior professionals, leaders, and individuals navigating complex transitions.